I should!. I should!. I should. I should!

When will your should become a MUST!?
 
If you are doing something else – and you want to do this thing that you love.
You do it after hours – you work 9 to 6 you get home you kiss the dog you kiss the kids you then kiss the partner  hug the family and you start working on the thing you love….. NOW that is hard work THAT is determination that is persistence and passion – Do that – and eventually it will happen.
 
Don,t wait until you are 65 – 75 – 85 – 95 – years old then say I SHOULD HAVE ??????
 
Then suffer with PAIN and REGRET., with lots of should have,s – could have,s – would have,s.
Most of you have been STUCK on “I SHOULD” for the past 12 years don’t wait for the end of your years with (I should) Get to the end of your years knowing you were perfect.
PERFECT to me is not about whether you made it or not in reaching your dreams and goals. Its not about the fancy car,the house , the dog, the money, the drop dead gorgeous woman on your arm or man – Its about YOU and your family and your friends and your kids and all loved ones – Been PERFECT is about been able to look all the above mentioned in the eye and know that you did not let them down.
Because you told them the truth – And that truth is that you did everything that you possibly can, and there’s not one more thing that you could have done to aspire for your goals and dreams…..WILL YOU BE ABLE TO LIVE IN THAT MOMENT?
AS BEST AS YOU CAN WITH CLEAR EYES AND LOVE IN YOUR HEART – And NO – could s, would s, should s.
If you men and women can do that 20-30-40 years from now –
THEN YOU WILL BE PERFECT!
 
But most people don’t want to do that, some love sleep more than accomplishing that thing they want.
Some love upgrading there apps and phones more than upgrading there minds – reading and studying when really they should be working on that thing they are after.
Some love partying more than they want that thing they love and want.
 
Stop making EXCUSES!… EXCUSES sound best to the person that’s making them up  – something I call
 
LOSER TALK!
 
Most people try once to get what they want and STOP!!!
Very few people TRY and TRY and TRY – and TRY – and TRY – and TRY or DO and DO and DO and DO, And never give up and those are the ones that EVENTUALLY SUCCEEDS IN WHAT THEY WANT.
 
If you are behind on your bills GOOD!…. Start GRINDING!!
If every month is a struggle GOOD!……….Start GRINDING!!
If certain people think you are a worthless loser GOOD! Start GRINDING!!
If you have pennies in your pocket and zero in the bank GOOD! Start GRINDING!!
If you have a great weekend spending spree  on drink / clothes / and now looking to your boss for overtime to make up the difference GOOD!…..Start GRINDING!!
 
Nelson Mandela said – “There is no passion to be found playing small, than settling for a life that’s less than the one you are capable of living.”
TO GET SOMETHING YOU HAVE NEVER HAD…… YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING YOU NEVER DID!
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