Am fine! Am okay! Am alright!

  How many times have you heard this answer when asking someone “How are you”
                                                                               BULLSHIT!
                                                 YOUR NOT FINE, YOUR NOT OKAY, YOUR NOT ALRIGHT!
You want more – you know it and you know that I know that you want more.
Every fucking day should be a special occasion for you – WHY?… Because you woke up this morning
                                                                                   Shit!!…
You want more BUT you are not willing to do more,
You talk about wanting a better body losing weight, yet you have not joined a gym you have not even bothered to walk around the block!
You want more BUT you are not willing to do more,
You talk about wanting to earn more money and you are still miserable even when you earn a little bit more – must be something else you are after right?
You want more BUT you are not willing to do more,
Still waiting for someone to come to you with a plate and say here is your dream!….. Now manifest it!!
You want more BUT you are not willing to do more
December 2016 you gave everyone you know the spill didn’t you? You told everyone who would listen –
Your gonna leave your job and get a better one
Your gonna start your own business
Your gonna earn more money
Your gonna be a millionaire
Your gonna travel and see the world
Your gonna buy that car
Your gonna live in that house
Your gonna become a musician
Your gonna have more clients
Your gonna take that course
Your gonna get rid of negative people in your lives and replace them with POSITIVE
Your gonna
You gonna
Your gonna your gonna your gonna your gonna your gonna.
                                                       “He or She who desires, but acts not-breeds pestilence”
There are many ways for you to get the things that you want in your life, and it starts with how you choose to think.
You cant try to do something – you have to commit!!
                                                                                  “Commitment” –
To carry into action deliberately, Commit means to make it happen no matter what! Then life changes for you.
Most people don,t keep there commitments to there commitments.
That,s why they live lives of poverty, and misery, lives of unhappiness in quiet desperation.
If you want achievement for the business you are starting or the career you are chasing or the body you want or to drum up more clients for your existing business or to go and study for something you don’t know how to do YET – YOU have to become somebody different.
                                                                                    Socrates said –
                                                                   The uncommitted life isn’t worth living.
You have to say to yourself this is what I believe! this is what  want to do! and this is how am going to get it!!…
Then go after it like your life depended on it……If it means giving up sleep (JUST DO IT) Sometimes I survive on 3 bloody hours sleep if news is coming out at 2am just to get into that trade in the Asian markets.
If you make a commitment to go for a run (JUST DO IT)
Sometimes I am all set to go for a run the weather is nice and by the time I open the front door its PISSING down, BUT does this stop me NO!
I go for that run whatever the circumstance. BECAUSE I am COMMITTED – In everything that I do, BECAUSE I know in the end IT WILL BE WORTH IT!
Are you thinking “Am I finish?” – well actually NO!….. Am just getting warmed up!
WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE YOU SHOULD BE DOING – Whatever you are dreaming of – IN FACT the bigger the dream the better.
If you don’t know how to use a computer you LEARN!
If you don’t know how to build a web site you LEARN
If you don’t know how to start a business you LEARN
If you don’t know how to have a loving lasting relationship you LEARN
If you don’t know how to become the CEO of your own company you LEARN
If you don’t know how to develop drive and determination YOU LEARN
                                                       
                                                       NOT KNOWING IS REALLY NOT AN EXCUSE
You should not even be thinking that!
Yes that!
The excuse you have given yourself and friends and family and even me for the past 1/5 years.
In fact the excuse that’s in your fucking head as you are reading this.
What is the excuse?
                                                                  “I HAVE NOT GOT THE TIME”!!
I will say this once to you all –  THE CHOICES YOU MAKE AFTER READING THIS – THE CHOICES YOU MAKE tomorrow, and the next day and the next day and the next –
                                                          WILL DEFINE THE CHARACTER OF YOU!
You cannot rely on others to do the work for you – BECAUSE if something goes wrong then –
                                                                             WHAT?
You find someone else to do it, constantly throwing money away?
You constantly blame others by pointing the finger when the job is not done right.
And why do you do that?
You have to learn to take responsibilities for your own actions, for your own learning, for your own rise and your own fall.
In order to move  forward – you have to upgrade –
Your Skills!
Your Emotions
Your Thought,s
Your Intelligence
Your Study
Your time
Your friends
Your acquaintances
OK lets make it a little simple for you eh?
How can you hit a target you cannot SEE?
That,s a pretty good question right?….. Well here is another one –
How can you hit a target you do not HAVE?
Go for what you want in life what you REALLY REALLY REALLY WANT!
Do NOT go for what you think is possible.
Most people fail in life not because they aim to high and MISS!…
Most people fail in life because they aim to low and HIT!
Most of you are interested BUT not COMMITTED!!
And you know what that means right?
INTERESTED = Doing whats easy /Convenient.
COMMITTED = You will do whatever it takes / Do or die/Sink or swim
                                                                         SO WHICH ONE ARE YOU?
When asked the question How are you?
Your answer should be –
I am ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!
I Am GREAT!
I Am FANTASTIC!
I am HAPPY!
TODAY IS MY FUCKING DAY!
Scientist estimate the probability of you – YES!…. YOU being born at about one in 400 trillion.
                                                                        ONE IN 400 TRILLION!!!
And yet all you can say to individuals when asked “How are you” Is –
Am fine!
Am okay!!
Am alright!!!…
Are you fucking kidding me! – You can choke a dozen donkeys with that figure and more –  and that’s all you have to say?
Do you feel like you have a right to be miserable?
                                                                                       WHY?
Because you have always been this way?
Your just a moody person because nothing is going right for you?
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Sometimes your UP….And sometimes your down – right!?
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Sometimes you feel like you have no life – right!?
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
There are times you feel you are in the dark – right!?
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
boys and girls – men and women – you can either stay there and get the shit kicked out of you or you can climb out of hell – BACK INTO THE LIGHT!!
When the sun is out you are smiling and happy, and if it is raining or cold you are miserable.
Get the fuck outta here people – You all need to raise your standards – you need to embrace the good as well as the bad.
You have to take a risk, you have to get rid of the negativity, and surround yourself with the positiveness.
4 months of the new year gone – be honest to yourself now, the way things are going
                                                                 WOULD YOU FOLLOW YOU?
Are you really doing all that you can do to take that course – to build your own web site – to get fit – to start that business – to earn more money – to grow and develop YOU!…. Whatever the circumstance!
You were one in 400 TRILLION And every morning you WAKE UP and all you can say is “am fine”, “am okay”, “am alright”.
                                                                                     Shiite!!
Stop blaming your circumstances for “am fine”, “am okay”, “am alright”.
Stop blaming the job you do and most probably hate for ‘am fine”, “am okay”, “am alright”
stop blaming the negative people you have around you for “am fine”, “am okay” “am alright”
Stop blaming your spouse for “am fine” “am okay” “am alright”
BECAUSE you can change all of that too –
I am ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!
I Am GREAT!
I Am FANTASTIC!
I am HAPPY!
And start living your life with GUSTO!…………….
                                                                         But only if YOU WANT TO!
                                                                                          OKAY!
                                                                   I will say it again – ONLY IF YOU WANT TO!!
You wake up every morning and the chances of you been born was one in 400 trillion.
Lets think of that number for a minute
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Okay that’s about a minute.
If you just start thinking about all the things you got to say thank you for.
                                                                     PEOPLE THAT’S A DAY!!
We all have that unique gift, to go out and touch people, affect people -and to be what we want to be,
                                                                     UNDERSTAND that gift
                                                                      PROTECT that gift
                                                                     APPRECIATE that gift
                                                                      UTILIZE that gift
                                                                     TREASURE that gift
                                                                      DON’T abuse that gift.
Follow your passion I urge you – and the rest will follow.
If you still use an alarm clock don’t press snooze when it goes off – throw those covers off jump out of bed get to work 1hour early and leave 1 hour after everyone, Work on the job you are doing (If it is your dream job) – or the business you want -like your life depended on it – do that for the next two months – I guarantee you things will start to change for you.
And if you are chasing that dream for yourself and your family and the children – NO EXCUSE SHOULD BE ACCEPTABLE!! NONE!!!!
                                “EXCUSES SOUND GOOD TO THE PERSON WHO IS MAKING THEM UP”
Don,t be the one sitting in front of the stove saying
                                                      “GIVE ME HEAT – THEN I WILL ADD THE WOOD.”
People you have to put the work in and then you will get the heat.
If this time next year you are in the same position and have not grown physically or mentally or emotionally or spiritually or financially  – you must be one of the very few who still believe –
                                                            DENIAL IS JUST A RIVER IN EGYPT
So please whatever it is you are doing or trying to do – whatever the adversity you are facing you have to –
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Things are not going too good for you.
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
You made a serious mistake at work.
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Your business is slow
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Your spouse is a no good piece of shit – GET RID of him/her &
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Circumstances don’t make a man or woman………………..IT REVELS THEM!!
Do what you can, where you are, with what you have – AND DON’T SETTLE!
And That my friend,s is called INTEGRITY!.. Its called DETERMINATION!.. Its called PERSISTENCE!.. Its called COURAGE!
Will it be easy – NO!
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!!
Will you want to cry – YES!
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Will you get hurt in the process – YES!
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Will it be smooth sailing – NO!
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Will there be times you cant make ends meet – YES!
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!
Getting rid of the naysayers and negative people in your life will that be easy – NO!… But you got to do it.
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP!…….And NEVER, Never, never give in!
“There are only two ways to live your life – one is as though NOTHING is a miracle, and the other is as though EVERYTHING is a miracle.” – Albert Einstein – 1879 – 1955.
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