“Live for Friday…Dread Monday”.

The majority of you are exactly where you are – Because that’s where you want to be.
 
You blame society, politicians, friends, government, the dog, your parents – your schooling, the neighborhood you was raised in.

 BUT NEVER YOURSELF!….. Why do you do this?…. Have you ever focused on CHANGING YOURSELF?

 You wake up doing the same shit every fucking day living for Friday and dreading Monday – You are where you are today

 based on what you think about yourself.
                                                                                   “Prophesying”

“My boss is laying people off – I will be next”

  “I will never be-able to start my own business”

  “I can never have a lot of money” – People with money are lucky!, they have rich parents! they are thieves! – it was given to them on a plate – bla,bla, bla!!

  “I can never ask that woman/man out, they will probably say No!”

  “I can never afford that car” “That house” go on a cruise!.

  “I can never get into shape!”

  “Flew season is here, I think Ill get it”
  “I will never be the BEST singer/musician/athlete/account/personal trainer.


   If you continue to think like this…. eventually you will get EXACTLY what you have asked for.

“A life of mediocrity and Poverty”
Insecurity! lack of cash! A job you are unhappy with! No business! Or STRUGGLING BUSINESS! Negative friends! mediocre singer! mediocre trainer!
                                              ” LIVING FOR FRIDAY and DREADING MONDAY”!
This is not the way to live your life people. You need to change your mind!
I mean shit!… You change and upgrade your phone, your Tablet, you change your hair color, your clothing, your country,Your church, your car. your shoes, you change the television channels.
PLEASE TELL ME YOU ARE NOT THE ONE WHO STILL BELIEVES ” DENIAL” IS JUST A RIVER IN EGYPT!
If you don’t CHANGE YOUR MIND the same experience will perpetuate itself –
OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN BECAUSE EVERYTHING OUTWARDLY CHANGED

                                                          BUT NOTHING INWARDLY CHANGED.
You cant talk and think negatively and live a POSITIVE LIFE!

You cant talk defeat and expect VICTORY!

If you have a poor mouth YOU will have a poor LIFE!
You know I bumped into an acquaintance a few days ago walking through the park, after the hugs and the MAW-AH! MAW-AH! On either cheek.

She looked at me and said “Its been a while” Which I agreed with – she then went on to say –

“I was “THINKING” about calling you for a coffee and catch up.”  (Last time we had a coffee – “Catch up” 11months ago.

                                                                               “THINKING”!!!!
                       Are you – YES YOU! READING this “THINKING” about taking that course?
Are you THINKING OF starting your business?

Are you THINKING of success?

Are you THINKING of making more money?

Are you THINKING of a better life?

Are you THINKING of of more clients?

Are you thinking of taking a break?

Are you THINKING of creating a great website?

Are you THINKING of getting that book deal?

Are you thinking of getting rid of naysayers?
THINKING! THINKING!! THINKING!!! THINKING!!!!………………..Get the FUCK out of here man!
You know what happens when you JUST (THINK)…. Time passes you by! – You wake up one day in a nursing home aged 75/85 years old
rocking on a chair still THINKING!! – But this time you will be THINKING –
                                                                    “I MISSED MY TURN”!
Regret is poor company!!!! –                  BUT you can change this –
                                                                    “ONLY IF YOU WANT TOO”!
                                                                          “THE TIME IS NOW”!
The time is now for you all to start believing in yourself!….stop focusing so much on FRIDAY! and dreading Monday!
Stop focusing on credit cards because it allows you to buy things NOW!… shit!!! I could be dead in a few weeks and I cant take it with me – sound familiar?
Whatever job pays the most I will do it – its all about the SWANDOLEE,S RIGHT?!!
Oh let me buy another lottery ticket,  that’s how I will make it! Then drinks, and partying and holidays, and pleasing friends and boyfriends and girlfriends so much that you –
                                                               FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF!!!
Gosh!!  – you only live once… live for today I may not be around tomorrow. sounds familiar?
But you ARE around tomorrow – its Monday your getting over the hangover your pissed off – Then comes the excuses….
Its not my fault where I am – its society, politicians, friends, government, the dog, your parents – your schooling, the neighborhood you was raised in.
                                                                                 SHUT UP!!!
Who wants to hear that racket!
Then we are back to square one! ” LIVE FOR FRIDAY AND DREAD MONDAY”!
                                                                     THAT’S NOT RIGHT!
What about YOU! and YOUR dreams! and goals! And aspirations! 

What about YOU! And YOUR wants! and needs!

What about YOU! and the path YOU want.
The truth of the matter is – You do have to become selfish to get to where you need to get to.
You have to STOP INSTANT GRATIFICATION! Focus on DELAYED GRATIFICATION!
You have to stop making promises to relatives, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, who ask you to do this or that FOR THEM.

ESPECIALLY if it is not helping you grow. If it is not helping you develop – financially – emotionally – spiritually – physically – mentally.

YOU have to DRAW the line!… YEAH I SAID IT!…. DRAW THE LINE – And say to yourself ENOUGH is ENOUGH!
And start saying to others

                                                                   THIS IS MY TIME!!
This is what I want to do, this is what am going to do, THEN GO AND DO IT!! – Without reservation, hesitation or fear.

I will WARN you though.

Along that path it will be a very lonely road – YOU will find individuals who are not as hungry as YOU!
People that have no commitment like YOU!

People who are not as dedicated as YOU!

People who are not as passionate as YOU!
                                                                              WALK AWAY! WALK AWAY!
Find  individual male or female who will dream like you.

who will have aspirations like you.

Who will be as dedicated as you.

Who will be committed like you.

Who will be as genuine as you.

KEEP THEM CLOSE!
Encourage each other, work together, grow together, solve problems together – Because in the end IT WILL BE WORTH IT!
                                         “STOP LIVING FOR FRIDAY AND DREADING MONDAY”!
Start to change your mind and plant that seed.

Stop “:THINKING” about doing stuff – And start DOING!

Stop using words like “I MIGHT” And start saying I WILL!

Stop using words like “I WILL TRY” “MAYBE” “NOT SURE”
Start to be POSITIVE….. Start to change your mind!
I CAN!

I MUST!

I am GOOD!

I am GREAT!

I am a SUCCESS!
I will not sleep UNTIL I AM DONE!…With what I am doing…. That,s what winners do!
And you know what?…. Wonderful things start happening to you.

What ever it is you are doing go at it as if your life depended on it and I assure you in the end –

                                                                    IT WILL BE WORTH IT!
                                        “STOP LIVING FOR FRIDAY… AND DREADING MONDAY”!

“When you’re the first person whose beliefs are different from what everyone else believes, you’re basically saying,

                                                   “I AM RIGHT, AND EVERYONE ELSE IS WRONG.”


That’s a very unpleasant position to be in. It’s at once exhilarating and at the same time,

                    
                                                        AN INVITATION TO BE ATTACKED.

Keep working! Keep grinding! You do have choices –
                                                      A life of SUFFERING or a life of BOREDOM.

                                                                            YOU DECIDE!

                                                                 REASONS or RESULTS.

                                                                            YOU DECIDE!

                                                                     DEFEAT or VICTORY.

                                                                             YOU DECIDE!
There should be a rush to go after your dreams –
                                      “THE CLOCK IS TICKING. TICK TOCK, TIC TOCK, TIC TOCK”.

                                      “STOP LIVING FOR FRIDAY AND DREADING MONDAY”.
Nothing in this world can take the place of good old “PERSISTENCE!.”
Talent wont.

Education wont.

Genius wont.

Motivation wont.

Persistence and determination alone are all powerful.

Why do some people succeed and other don’t?

Well to be honest you should know the answer to this question IMMEDIATELY!

The successful person worked a lot more!…The successful person sacrificed a lot more!….

The successful person had that little bit more persistence!…

They focused on the PROCESS And not the EVENT

They focused on DELAYED GRATIFICATION not INSTANT GRATIFICATION.
“Are you willing to do the things today others wont do, in order to have the things tomorrow others wont have?”
                        “No man or woman is free – who is not master of his or herself.”

                                 “DON’T LIVE FOR FRIDAY AND DREAD MONDAY”

                                                    Tick tock tick tock tick tock


                                “DON’T LIVE FOR FRIDAY AND DREAD MONDAY!!”
That,s not the way to live your life, find something you enjoy, find something you are passionate about, find something that will make you JUMP OUT OF BED IN THE MORNING!
And then go after that thing that you want like there is no tomorrow.
                               “DON’T LIVE FOR FRIDAY…… AND DREAD MONDAY’!
EVERYBODY wants TO CHANGE THE WORLD….. But they wont change negative HABITS!!
EVERYBODY wants TO UPGRADE THERE CAR….But they wont upgrade there MINDS!
EVERYBODY wants TO DREAM……But they wont PURSUE the DREAM!

EVERYBODY wants to talk the talk….But they wont walk the TALK!

1. WHATS YOUR WHY?

2. THINK MASSIVELY!

3. TURN LIABILITIES INTO ASSETS!

4. GET RID OF NAYSAYERS!

5. WORK YOUR ARSE OFF! WHATEVER THE CIRCUMSTANCES!

6. DON’T BE REALISTIC….COME OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE!

7. DON’T BE AFRAID TO FAIL…GO AT IT AGAIN WITH THE SAME ENTHUSIASM AS THE FIRST TIME!

8. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

9. THINK LIKE A CHAMPION!

10. SET A GOAL!

11. EVALUATE DAILY!

12. HAVE INTEGRITY!

13. DON’T CHASE MONEY! HAVE A PASSION!

14. DEVELOP THE HABITS!

15. DON’T MAKE EXCUSES! EXCUSES SOUND BEST TO THE PERSON WHO IS MAKING THEM UP!

16. STOP PROCRASTINATING!

17. FIND YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR!

18. UP YOUR STANDARDS!

19. PROVE THEM WRONG!

20. BE WILLING TO DIE FOR YOUR CAUSE!

21. BE DETERMINED!

                                                   AND IN THE END………IT WILL BE WORTH IT!

                                     “STOP LIVING FOR FRIDAY…….AND DREADING MONDAY”!

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