Thanks to T.D.J
You cannot be limited to people who look like you, or vote like you, or dress like you, or walk like you.
YOU have to get out the box people!
you cant be too narrow or one dimensional…… This is a coat of many colors.
Do not categorize individuals by colors.
BECAUSE – it is not the colors you need to watch, it is the character!
There are 3 types of people who you will interact with if you are a child of destiny.
The first group are – CONFIDANTE!
You have very few of them – Confidante are those people in your life who will love you UNCONDITIONALLY.
They are into YOU! Whether you are up or down right or wrong, THEY ARE INTO YOU!
They are in for the long haul – if you get in trouble they will get in trouble with you – you can open up and share ANYTHING WITH THEM.
Having your confidante is the key that will unlock your kingdom.
The trouble with most people is everybody they run around with is under them.
So you are forever feeding people who cant feed YOU.
And after years of feeding them they begin to drain you. You have to have someone who can feed you so you can then feed somebody else.
And the confidante is so few people who come along in your life that are for you! They are with you! They are intimately intertwined in your life, they are there to make sure you reach your destiny, they will confront you, they will get in your face they will get in your business, they will tell you when you are wrong because they are your CONFIDANTE!
If you have two or three of them in a life time – YOU ARE A BLESSED PERSON!
Theses group of people are your CONFIDANTE!
The other group are your CONSTITUENTS!
They are NOT into you – they are into what you are for.
And as long as you are for what they are for, they will walk with you, and labor with you, and talk with you.
But NEVER think they are for you, they are for what you are for – and YOU ALL have to know that because if they meet somebody else that will further there agenda – they will leave you and hook up with them – BECAUSE they were never for YOU, they were just there for what you were for.
And throughout your life if you are not careful you will mistake your CONSTITUENTS for your CONFIDANTE and you will think they are for you when in reality they are not for you they are just for what you are for.
Theses group of people are your CONSTITUENTS!
Are you all with me so far?
OK lets see if i can go deeper with THIS!
The third group are your COMRADES!
Theses people are not for YOU – nor are they for what you are for – they are AGAINST WHAT YOU ARE AGAINST.
The comrades will make strange bed fellows – They will team up with you to help fight a greater enemy – but don’t be confused by there associations, they will only be with you until the victory is accomplished.
Theses people are like scaffolding, they come into your life to fulfill a purpose, and when the purpose is complete, the scaffolding is removed, but don’t be upset when it is removed because the building always remain when the scaffolding is removed.
I suppose what i am saying to you all is EXPECT THE CONSTITUENTS and the COMRADES to leave you and dessert you after a while.
Don,t be upset when they don’t react to your dream the way you expected them too BECAUSE THEY WERE REALLY NEVER WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE.
If you tell your dream to your CONSTITUENTS they will desert you and try to fulfill the dream without you.
If you tell it to your COMRADES they wont support it because they were never for what you were for in the fist place.
If you find a few people in your life who you can share your dream with YOU ARE A BLESSED PERSON!
HMMMMM! – Identifying people who are really for you! – If they are really for you they will weep with you when you weep!
And they will rejoice when you rejoice!
When you walk into a room and you tell somebody good news – STOP been happy for a minute and WATCH THERE REACTION.
If they are not happy for you SHUT your mouth and walk right back out of the door.
BECAUSE when they are really connected to you – they will be happy for you when you share your dream and goals.
Find somebody look them in the EYE and ask them “Are you happy for me”
If you don’t get the right reaction DON’T TELL THEM ANYTHING ELSE!!
“I’m a success today because I had several CONFIDANTE who believed in me and I didn’t have the heart to let any of them down.”Rodney Hypolite